Being liked made easy in 5 simple steps, Step 3 – Be Nice
This is probably the most important part of being liked. We all want to be around people who are nice and have a gentle friendly nature, simple! Now, if we can be nice to others generally they will be nice in return and you become a likable person.
Like it says in the bible, “Do unto others as you would
have them do to you” (Matthew 7:12)
I say this a lot to people, I think we can just start by
being as patient and polite as you can with people, yet casual. Listen, and try
to help if you can. Do things for people because you want to, not to get
something in return.
A good way we can be nice at work is, each day give
someone different a compliment, make someone a drink, and ask someone what they
are doing this weekend. People love talking about themselves, this is VERY
important to remember.
Lastly, I always remember this quote from ‘How to Win
Friends and Influence People’ - You can
make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you
can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. – Dale Carnegie.
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